No mere speculation to say there is at least one person in your life experience who has wronged you and left you with a scar either physical or emotional that reminds you of the moment and re-enforces painful memories. Are you satisfied to live like that? There is no reason to answer in the affirmative. To insist on answering in the affirmative means you have consciously determined your right to be offended stands on a higher order of distinction than the most noble act in the history of mankind performed by the most sane and loving person ever to walk on earth. Are you satisfied to put yourself in that position? If so a good case can be made that you are out of your mind.
